i have no idea what i'm doing

[benignnetherworld]

after the death of our heir, i was sort of elected as our new leader of sorts..... except i have no clue what i'm doing and now our bane is being stupid and talking about trying to kill their denizen but i know they haven't finished all their maturity quests and the knight doesn't like to talk to me but he's off frog finding and...

I just feel so damned lost.... i miss the heir and i just want this game to be over.... i am a terrible leader

[casualUcalegon]

Assert dominance and make your Bane listen to U. Go with him on his MatUrity qUests to keep him in line. RoUnd Up the others and give them tasks to do, making it seem like U have a master plan. Don't take no for an answer!

[spacetimeCounselor]

The pepleader stat as an abstract representation of authoritativeness might not be the best way to decide who leads, especially if you're distraught like this. If there isn't anyone in a better condition to lead, you'll at least want to delegate some of that stuff. You have a Seer of Heart, so having her take care of people's personal problems is a good idea. In the absence of anyone else for your Bane to follow, she's probably the best candidate to get him under control. You'll have to get someone to deal with the Heir's duties, I think, and the Bane's struggling with that so you'll need to talk to your Prince or Knight probably. Did you recover that pendant thing?

[benignnetherworld]

we have delegated the duties, and the seer has taken up some of the duties. i got the prince to pair up with the bane, and they seem to be doing fine. the bane stopped trying to skip his quests.

we did recover the pendant not long after i confirmed his death, as we had the seer help scry it's location.

i don't really trust any one else to lead, they all seem to be in various stages of grief and craziness and i don't want to dump it on any of them.